cmay22
Jul 14, 2017

It happened to me

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Edited: Jul 14, 2017

When i was 14 i was raped by a boy in my highschool. he was a part of the group of friends i was in and he was my first crush. i disnt realize what he did was weon because i didnt think someone i trusted could hurt me. when the other kids at school found out i turned into the outcast and was bullied to the point i did not return to that school after the weekend it happened. i did home schooling. i isolated myself. i clung to my family petrified to make friends again as i never imagined the people i called friends would turn on me so fast for something i had no control over.

fast forward fifteen years and i still carry this anxiety with me but im learning each day that its ok and will be ok. i do not want people to suffer in silence. sharing my story has helped me let go of some of the shame i had which i shouldnt have.

 

 

RIA
Jul 17, 2017

Thank you for having the courage to share your story! You are a strong and beautiful woman! And it looks like you like nature too! The perfect place for you to breathe and find clarity.

 

Keep on going! We stand tall by your side! You ARE resilience!

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